Unfortunately I wasn’t able to attend Romanticon last weekend, but I was told that people attending had the option to learn about burlesque and pole dancing and of course this got me thinking about how incredibly sexy it is to give your partner a little strip tease or lap dance.
Now I know for a lot of women doing a sexy dance is a little out of your comfort zone, but trust me it is so worth it to step out of your comfort zone and give it a try. Whether you feel comfortable doing this in your bra and underwear or less dressed than that, either way your partner will love it, guaranteed. There is nothing sexier than confidence in the bedroom.
Start across the room, swaying your hips dancing to the beat of the music. Slowly move closer to him as you run your hands across your body, lingering your hands on your breast or dip your fingers beneath your underwear. Turn around and keeping your legs straight bend down and touch your feet and smile over your shoulder, smack your ass, run your hand up your leg. Pretend it’s your partner touching you, make them wish it was them running their hands across your body. The more turned on you look the more turned on your partner is going to be.
Move closer so you can touch your partner but don’t let them touch you with their hands yet. You are in control, running the shots. Slowly use your butt to touch his lap and rub against his body. Swing your hips as you straddle him. Tease him and build up the excitement.
Turn around and nudge his knees apart so you are stepping between his legs and place your hands on the back of the chair. Lightly rub your knee against his crotch. Kneeling on the edge of the chair you can blow, nibble his ear, run your tongue along his neck. Then slowly ease your knees on either side of his legs and slide back down so that your body lines up with his. Tease your partner, raise up and teasingly press your breasts against his face.
Don’t worry if you aren’t the best dancer in the world, it doesn’t matter. It’s all about teasing your partner and driving them crazy with how much they want you. Most of all have fun. Enjoy every minute of it, if you do, guaranteed your partner will as well.
There are lots of different moves that you can try that will drive your partner crazy so play around and explore what you both like.
Go on, try a sexy striptease this month.
I dare you.
And as always, if you have any questions you’d like to ask me, don’t be shy. Just fire me an email at firstname.lastname@example.org and I will be sure to answer them. Nothing is off limits with me–except maybe politics–so always feel free to ask away.
Until next time,